About Us

Our 
Story

With 20 years of marriage, one thing we have realized is that conflict is inevitable. We're two different people with different childhoods, ideas and points of view. We have learned the way you communicate through conflict determines your connection with each other going forward. After repeating the cycle of defensive and silent treatment stances with hot and cold connection, we knew we had to reframe the way we approached our marriage and each other.   We started looking inward instead of blaming each other (this was not easy!) and gave ourselves and each other grace.  And you know what? - We discovered that we didn't have to hold onto the honeymoon phase of love to keep us together.  We can now have those difficult conversations and talk to each other in a positive way, even when we don't see eye to eye.  Our shift from negative to positive communication has allowed us to become more connected and create exciting and passionate experiences together.  We don't always get it right with each other, but we are committed to showing up each day communicating better and connecting more.